Yesterday, my wife, Amber, and I celebrated our 18th wedding anniversary. 18 Years! What an incredible journey we have been on so far. We started out so young back in ’97. Fresh out of high school, yet we knew that we were meant to spend the rest of our lives together. When I think back to the time when we married, you could probably count on one hand how many people thought we would even last six months being married so young. We had a different plan though. It was the two of us. We were committed to each other and were going to make it through whatever obstacles that came our way.
Our life together has not been without struggle. We essentially grew-up together. I worked 50-60+ hours per week, plus attended college full-time to take care of our family. Our first son came later that year and we had to figure things out. We had to learn about each other and adapt to life together. We lost a lot of friends in the process as everyone drifted to college and their own lives. Through it all, though, we stuck together and stayed committed to the life we set out to have together, no matter what came our way.
We stand here today, however, 18 years later, even more in love than we were then. We were united as one just as the Lord calls us when we marry and we have lived our lives that way. She is my life and my love. She is the other half of me and I know God destined the two of us to be together for life. She brings out the best of me being around her. She has supported me in all my schooling and career and now that God has really taken over our lives she is even more behind where He’s leading us now. Our lives being committed to the Lord has drawn us even closer together and seeing the light of the Lord shine in her is so beautiful. She glows with the beauty of a daughter of God.
I’ve been so blessed to have Amber as my wife. To have a wife that loves me unconditionally is so amazing. Sure we have our ups and downs, but we our still madly in love and that grows with each passing day, week, month, and year. I look forward to many, many more years with my bride. She is a beautiful woman, and beautiful and loving wife, a great mom to our 3 children, and the best part of my day, every single day. I pray God’s hand in our marriage everyday and that as we grow together in love and faith that our hope in Him shines in our lives and reflects in how we glorify the Lord through our marriage. It’s a beautiful life!
“Staying married, therefore, is not mainly about staying in love. It is about keeping covenant. “Till death do us part” or “As long as we both shall live” is a sacred covenant promise – the same kind Jesus made with His bride when He died for her.” – John Piper